Do you need a refresher course on how to be romantic with your girlfriend? Well, then, listen up. I know that in the beginning of the relationship everything seemed to come so easily. Everything was candlelight and roses and you could do no wrong in her eyes.
How did it all change so quickly? You do not have a clue do you? Well, somewhere along the line the romance stopped and life got in the way. The candlelight turned into a 100 watt bulb in the ceiling and the roses shriveled up and died.
Now, if you should happen to remember to send her flowers, she is going to think you have some ulterior motive or you have done something you need to apologize for. I know you do not believe that but trust me, I am right. This bouquet of flowers will not help you one teensy tiny little bit. She will be too suspicious to take them for what they were intended, a romantic gesture.
If you do not want her to be suspicious, take this how to be romantic with your girlfriend advice to heart. If you want to send her flowers do not send them to her work place, especially if she works with a lot of other women. The others will plant the seed of doubt and she will probably be angry with you by the time she gets home.
The New Romance
So, have them waiting on the table for her along with the nice little dinner you prepared, or if you can't cook, at least bought with her in mind. Turn off that 100 watt bulb in the ceiling, light those candles again; have romantic music playing softly in the background and a nice bottle of wine opened and breathing.
Treat her like a queen when she gets home. Kiss her ever so softly on the lips to greet her then, take her coat and briefcase and put them away for her. Sit her in a chair and remove her shoes, giving each one of her feet a little rubdown with the promise of more later. Tell her to go get freshened up and have the new lingerie you bought her hanging in the bathroom for her to put on.
When she is ready, pull her chair out for her at the table and serve her dinner. Make conversation by asking how her day was and listen as she tells you all about it. Even if you do not understand what she is talking about. Always listen. Make eye contact and touch her hand or arm during dinner. Tell her how beautiful you think she is and always will be in your eyes.
After dinner lead her to the sofa, bringing along the rest of the bottle of wine and glasses to the living room and fulfill the promise of a complete foot rub, including toes, ankles, and calves. She will undoubtedly be putty in your hands at this point and only now can you relax a little and be confident that you know how to be romantic with your girlfriend.