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4 Easy Ways to Spice Up Things in the Bedroom.

There are so many ways to reignite the fire however there are four easy way to spice up things in the bedroom.   First, are you in a relationship that seems as if it is stalled in the bedroom?  If so, your first thought may be to terminate the relationship.  But, what if your relationship is long-term?  What if you are married?  What if you really do love your partner?  What steps should you take then?
Spice things up in your relationship-WHERE

Couple on beach that are in love in silhouette.

  When it comes to being unhappy in the bedroom, it is important to know that ending a marriage or a relationship should only be used as a last approach.  Instead, you will want to take steps to spice things up.  Doing so may improve more than just your intimacy, but it may do wonders for your relationship in general.   As nice as it is to hear that you can and should spice things up and in the bedroom, you may be unsure as to how you should proceed.  If that is the case, please continue reading on.  Below, four easy ways that you can spice things up in the bedroom, are covered.  

1 – Engage in Foreplay

  When you do have sex, what happens?  Do you and your partner get right down to business?  If you do, that may be a huge problem.  Unfortunately, many couples do not realize that intimacy is more than just about having sex.  It is also about having a happy and healthy relationship.  If you rely on sex to make your relationship succeed, there is a very good chance that it will actually fail.   If you and your partner don’t already engage in foreplay, start doing so.  Also, remember that foreplay doesn’t have to start in the bedroom.  Call your lover, send a text message, or a handwritten note expressing your desires to get intimate with them later on.  If this has gotten your lovers attention and has things warming up it is time to turn up the dial and Spice up things.  

2 – Be Spontaneous as a way to Spice things up in the Bedroom

  When you want to have sex, what do you do?  If you actually take the time to ask your partner if they want to be intimate with you, you may be doing more harm than good.  Asking first can make being intimate seem more like a chore than something that should bring you pleasure.  The next time that you want to move to the bedroom, don’t ask first.  Just lead your partner there.  In fact, who needs a bedroom?   Know that being spontaneous is about more than not talking about sex first.  Ways that you can be spontaneous with your partner is to have sex at a different time, date, or place.  

3 – Talk About Your Fantasies to Spice up things in the Bedroom.

  One of the biggest reasons why couples have problems with sex is because one person isn’t having their desires fulfilled.  If that is the case with you?  Does your partner know what you like or what you want to get out of being intimate?  If not, it is time for you to let them know.   Be sure to talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies and desires.  What would you like to try in the bedroom?  In addition to expressing your wants, needs, and darkest fantasies, be sure to let your partner do the same.  Remember that both of you should walk away from an intimate encounter pleased.  

4 – Experiment in the Bedroom-Getting things Warmed Up.

  Another one of the easy ways that you can spice up things in the bedroom is by experimenting.  When doing so, you may be pleased with all of your options.  For starters, you can try a new sex position.  This may not only lead to extra pleasure, but fun and excitement.  Sex toys, romantic or pornographic videos, and role playing are other good ideas for experimenting in the bedroom.  Look at together and pick out a toy or pick one out for each other.   Remember that experimenting in the bedroom is a good way to spice up your intimacy, but be sure to use your best judgment.  It may be a wise decision to first discuss making changes with your partner, as you will not want to make him or her feel uncomfortable.   So there you have it!  You know have a few ideas on how you can go about spicing up things in the bedroom.  So what are you waiting for?  Get started today. it is up to you to Spice things up in the Bedroom.    Vixen

Sex Toys Are Awesome But what If They Are new To you

{Sex toys provide you with an excellent feeling to enjoy virtual sex without getting infected with AIDS or any other STDs. Sex is a biological need for every man and woman, which is literally impossible to avoid. Many males & females do not get their sexual desires fulfilled only by having sex, due to which, they rely on using sex toys. These instruments satisfy their body and are normally of very attractive looks. These instruments are known as sex toys. It is your first time, or you are a veteran user, these tips would definitely help you in overcoming your fears with sexual instruments:~Without getting infected from dangerous diseases like AIDS, and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) sex toys help you in gaining maximum pleasure that you cannot attain from normal sex. Although sex is a naturally biological need of every living being on this planet, not all males & females get completely satisfied with sex. With the ghost amount of precision, sex toys are instru ments designed to enhance the sexual pleasure of a male or female. Dildos and vagina flashlights, are designed in a natural way to give the real look & feel as if having sex. To help you in better understanding the sex toys and their usage for the first time ever, read the following tips:~Many times when females don’t get satisfied with natural sex form their sex partners, they often get frustrated in attaining the maximum level of satisfaction. One good way in getting rid of sexual dissatisfaction is by using sex toys that are specifically designed to improve sexual pleasure. However, using any sex toy for the first time could be a very frustrating or painful experience. By carefully following the below mentioned tips, you can greatly reduce your pains and enjoy sexual pleasure derived out of these instruments:} {Understand the nature of the sex toy – At times, dildos could scare you when you open unpack them for the first time. Moreover, companies don’t even take the liberty of providing an essential training manual on how to use one.~Understanding nature of toys– Every sex toy has its own nature. Dildo, and vaginal flashlights are made in a myriad of models, shapes, and sizes. It is better to choose the one most suitable for your pleasure that you can easily handle.~What are these toys made for?– Every sex toy is made up of different nature and purpose. Dildos are used for vaginal penetration, whereas vaginal flashlights are used for penile penetrations. It is in the best interest to first understand the nature of these toys and then buy them according to your mode. A plethora of colors, sizes, and models are available in the market and you need to select the most suitable one for yourself.} {Clean them up! – Whether it is a dildo or a vagina torch light, it is essential to clean them in luke warm water with some baking soda so that any or all chemicals could be removed off them and you can use them easily to enjoy sexual pleasures.~Always wash before usage– Since toys are made of plastic, there are chances of their condemnation using dangerous chemicals. It is advisable to always wash them in warm water with baking soda, or soap to get rid of all chemicals present on their surfaces. This would help you in getting complete peace of mind by using these toys.~Wash them up– Any toy to be used specifically for inserting in your body, should be carefully washed first. This is important as toys are made up of plastic and other chemicals that if not washed properly, could cause vaginal infections. Therefore, it is imperative to wash them with warm water and a perfumed soap.} {Proper lubrication – The bad thing about sex toys is that they are not self-lubricating in nature, unlike the penis and the vagina. It is of pivotal importance to use as much lubrication as possible to make sure that there is minimum amount of friction while you play with them. Many dildos and vagina flashlights do not easily penetrate, due to which is important to use an oil based lubricant like perfumed hair oil.~Lubricate them as much as you can– Unlike the vagina and the penis, which are self-lubricating in nature, sex toys need artificial oil based lubrication to give you maximum sexual pleasure. It is compulsory to lubricate these toys as per your requirements to gain maximum sexual pleasure and reach the ultimate level of orgasms.~Oil up the toys! – Just like motor oil is important for effective functioning of the motor, similarly oiling up the toy is also important to get maximum sexual satisfaction. Use only oil based lubricants so that they don’t stick with in your vagina.} {Get sexually aroused – Just like it is important to warm up for any physical activity, it is equally important to get sexually aroused before using any sex toys or you would not be able to enjoy them.~Warm up – Have you ever enjoyed sex without getting warmed up? I bet you haven’t. As a result, it is important to get sexual aroused and warm up before using the sex toys so that you can gain maximum sexual satisfaction. Feel relaxed, as time is all yours!~Get sexually warmed up– Getting sexually aroused is very important to get maximum sexual satisfaction. Ladies, do not rush taking the dildo all in without first getting it lubricated to reduce friction. If you don’t do so, you would end up having vaginal disinfection. Moreover, you would have a very painful experience in inserting the dildo.} {Take it real slow – Do not rush entering the toy in your vagina. Remember, the complete freedom to control dildos and other sex toys, is in your hands. Take deep breaths, and push inside slowly, perhaps half an inch at a time. The deeper you breath, the better the chances of getting aroused and enjoying fun.~Do not rush!– Vagina is a sensitive area, and unlike the penis that hardly damages it, if you use sex toys in a roughly manner, you could end up getting your vagina swelled. Do not rush at all. Make sure that the toy is properly lubricated and enjoy it as if you would with your sex partner.~Keep it slow– Ladies, police isn’t going to catch you! Feel relaxed, lubricate the toy and insert it slowly. Do not rush in inserting the entire dildo in any way or you would not gain maximum sexual satisfaction. Play with it any way you like. Deep, shallow, fast or slow, as long as you are aroused, you would enjoy!} {Work out till you are done – Keep using the couples sex toy to your desired level of satisfaction. It is advisable not to exceed a single moment when you start feeling pain or swelling in or near your vagina~It is hoped that the above tips help your understanding in better using the female sex toys for the first time.~There is no general rule of thumb, when it comes to using vibrating sex toys. The key is to have fun, relax and listen to your body.}

Condom 101

Misuse of Condoms are a Global problem.

Not only in the US but globaly couples are not using condoms right. Sex and condoms goes hand and hand right? Reported last week, A new study published in the journal of Sexual Health provides a global picture of condom use, based on 50 articles representing 14 countries. Led by the Kinsey Institute Condom Use Research Team, researchers from around the world compared notes on condom habits and issues, including the use of female condoms in South Africa and counterfeit condoms in China. The most common errors included not using condoms throughout sex, not leaving space or squeezing air from the tip of the condom, putting condoms on upside down, not using water-based lubricants, and incorrect withdrawal. Other problems included breakage, slippage, leakage, and difficulties with fit and feel. The misuse of condom use is on the rise.  Then number of confirmed STD's are also on the rise,  coinsidence I think not.

Condom 101: How to use a condom Consistently and Correctly.

Here are some guidelines from the CDC on How to use a condom Consistently and Correctly.
  • Use a new condom with every act of vaginal, anal and oral sex throughout the entire sex act from Start to Finish.
  • Before any genital contact, put a condom on the tip of an erect penis with the rolled side out
  • If the condom does not have a reservoir tip, then pinch the tip enough to leave a half inch space for semen to collect.   Holding the tip, unroll the condom all the way to the base of an erect penis.
    The Reservoir of a condom

    Keep a Reservoir for the semen collection

  • After ejaculation and before the penis gets soft, grip the rim of the condom, and carefully withdraw.  The gently pull the condom off the penis, making sure that the semen does not spill out.
  • Wrap the condom in a tissue and throw it in the trash where others will not handle it.
  • If you feel the condom break at any point during sexual activity, stop immediately, withdraw and remove the broken condom and put on a new condom.
  • Ensure that adequate lubrication is used during vaginal and anal sex, which might require a water based lubricant.  Oil-based lubricants (ie, petroleum jelly, shortening, mineral oil,  massage oil, body lotions and cooking oil) should not be used because they can weaken latex, causing breakage.  This is the same for non-latex condoms.
When you think of it at somepoint in your lifetime you have had one or the other go wrong. Also, think about using a non-latex condom if you have had the proper STD screening and are with the same partner in a monogamous  relationship.  The possibility of someone developing a latex allergy or having on is on the rise as well. There are many different types of lube to choose from water and silicone are the most popular. Next week: Choosing a personal lubricant.      

A Coffee Date Led to My Discovery of Toys For Adults

{Sex toys are obviously for adults, and it all makes sense because sex is the way adults play. But who knew that my coffee date would lead me to my discovery of these items, and what a breakthrough this was.~Adults play in their own way, and for many adults this means sex. Sex toys are aptly named as the kind of toys that adults play with and who would have believe that a simple coffee date would lead to my discovery of these fascinating aids.~Sex it the way that adults play, but in the past this fun activity ahs been taken far too seriously. Then came the sex toys, an it had a bad rep for being a toll used in porn movies, this is no longer the case, these are mainstream items now, and my discovery of them came from a coffee date.}

{To me, a “coffee date” has always been a euphemism for more than just a date, made to seem innocuous. However, it has become the acceptable euphemism for meeting anyone for the first time and when a new person recently came into my life, I agreed to this “coffee date” even though I don’t drink coffee!~“Coffee Date” has always had a strange connotation for me. I find the over-use of this euphemism a little odd, perhaps because I have never appreciated the fine art of coffee drinking. I would rather have a beer in a bar or a cup of green tea. But today if you want to meet people you have to be prepared for the “coffee date”.~When people say to me, “let’s meet for coffee” it always makes me feel strange – why coffee? Is coffee more respectable than beer, or is this just a nicer way of saying let’s meet up and see if we might like to shag? Who knows, but today a coffee date is an acceptable way to meet strangers.}

{It is strange how some people touch you sometimes, but when I met Gary, we clicked immediately. Initially the coffee meeting went well and we agreed to see each other again. After a few dates, definitely not coffee dates and a rapidly growing intimacy, we started to discuss the possibility of taking our relationship to the next level, another euphemism for “sex”.~When Gary and I met on our coffee date, we immediately clicked, and I didn’t really go with an open mind, but there you have it. Soon we were actually “seeing” each other and a growing sense of intimacy started to pervade our relationship. We were definitely taking things to the next level, and pretty quickly too.~If I was going to get any dates at all I realized that the inevitable “coffee date” was going to have to be kept and this is how Gary and I met. Fortunately we clicked straight away and I have to admit when I met him, drinking coffee was furthest from my mind. All I could think wa s – “oo, I would like to shag you”. So we started seeing each other and things soon got serious.}

{When we spoke about this I was a little shy at first but he was so open and honest that it all seemed quite natural. He then brought up the subject of Sex toys and I shyly admitted that these had never really been big on my agenda, although I wasn’t averse to trying them, my previous relationship had just not been very sexually adventurous.~Soon our conversations turned to sex and I actually felt quite comfortable speaking with him about this. I had not really ever been this open before but he made me comfortable and soon the conversation led to Sex toys. Not something I had ever contemplated or been very adventurous about.~It didn’t take long for us to start talking about sex, and like the mature adults we are we discussed it in depth before we actually tried it. He was easy to speak to and I felt comfortable, he also brought up the subject of Sex toys; not something I had really got into before.}

{In fact it was totally boring and this was one of the reasons why I had seen fit to call it a day!~My last relationship wasn’t terribly sexual and in fact, this was why I had given up on it and allowed it to die a slow and painless death.~The last relationship I had was not very adventurous and I had been previously married to a selfish pig.}

{The long and short of it was that right from the start Gary and I were honest with each other and when we did get sexually active, we immediately started to explore the possibility of sex toys.~From the very word go, Gary and I hade embarked upon a journey of discovery together and from this honesty, we launched out exploration of sex toys. It is hard to believe that a subject like this could be meaningful, but it is.~Gary and I had a pretty whirlwind romance and it was, and still is, filled with adventure. It is honest and open and the exploration of the world of adult play including the introduction of sex toys has actually been great fun as well as meaningful}

{He is definitely of the new generation of men who believe that women should be pleasured before the male partner gets his satisfaction. We had some pretty good and very funny shopping sprees.~I was lucky to find Gary, a man who understands that it is important for a women to also be sexually fulfilled in a relationship. Out shopping sprees for sex toys were, in fact still are a lot of fun.~I consider myself incredibly lucky to have found Gary, he is a modern man with modern views on female sexuality and this for me is refreshing. Shopping for sex toys has become just as much fun as experimenting with them.}

{First we started looking online, and then I heard about adult party plan and how much fun it was for all the girls to get together to buy plastic ware of a different kind. My girlfriends and I have all hosted a couple of these parties and as well as adding to our collection of sex toys, we have made a lot of new friends.~I was a bit shy in the beginning and didn’t fancy walking into a sex shop, so we shopped online. Then we discovered a new way to add to our collection. Adult party plan! I have hosted a few parties and grown a whole new circle of like-minded friends, as well as added to my collection of adult toys, lingerie, lotions potions and all kinds of goodies.~Although I was a little shy at first and would only order these adult toys online, things have changed since I discovered adult party plan. I met and agent and hosted a function and a lot of things changed. I have made a lot of new girlfriends too and we take it in turns to host parties and stock up on sexy items.}

{What really surprises me is that a simple coffee date, that I was completely skeptical about in the first place, has led me to this exciting new place in my life. My circle of friends is growing, my relationship with Gary is growing into love and is on an incredibly even and very satisfied keel; and all because of a cup of coffee, a bit of honesty and some great adult fun!~It’s amazing the changes in my life, all from a little bit of honesty, a coffee date and a handful of sex toys. I am kept satisfied and happy, Gary is kept satisfied and happy and I have a load of satisfied and very happy friends too , we all have such a good time together.~The changes I have experienced have been pretty amazing, I now have a rapidly growing collection of sex toys, role play outfits, lingerie, potions and lotions, as well as a great relationship with Gary and a host of new friends. All because of a coffee date and sex toys; who would have thought?}

AA Batteries Can Save Your Relationship

{The words AA batteries and sex toys work hand in hand. As women have become freer about expressing their sexuality, words such as rabbits, diving dolphins, and power bullets are no longer deemed to be referring to animals or weaponry. These are sex toys and when I bought my first vibrator, who knew that AA batteries would be responsible for improving my relationship?~Many sex toys operate off AA batteries and who knew that these would be responsible for improving my relationship. These days women are free to be open about their sexuality and diving dolphins, rabbits, and power bullets are part of many women's daily vocabulary, but not in reference to animals or armoury - these are popular versions of sex toys.~AA batteries are well known for being the energy source which sex toys operate from and it seems really strange that these little packets of power would be responsible for improving my relationship, and yet this is true. Power bullets, rabbits and diving d. olphins have become part of our daily vocabulary and yet these are not animals or weaponry, they are popular sex toys.}

{This was many years before adult party plan or the manufacture of sex toys for wholesale became a billion dollar industry. Back in the good old days when sex toys were powered by gasoline powered generators (joke).~I bought my first battery driven vibrator shortly after they were converted from being driven by the internal combustion engine - just joking. But I bought it many years ago, long before sex toys were popular items in the bedroom.~I purchased my first sex toy many, many moons ago - in the dark ages, and quite frankly without it, my sex life would have been pretty meaningless. Believe it or not both women and men have been using sex toys since Greek and Roman times and even before.}

{Like many women, I was not orgasmic when I had regular sex, but with a lot of good foreplay and a patient partner, plus my AA battery powered toys, practice soon made anything possible.~The majority of women are not orgasmic and I was the same, this was until I discovered the joys of a patient partner, a great vibrator and of course, the old faithful AA batteries. I soon learned that it doesn't hurt to ask for help.~I was not orgasmic until I brought a sex toy into my relationships and this is something which many women share. Things can change quite dramatically with the right partner and a bushel of AA batteries.}

{Today I am multi orgasmic, and you will more than likely find that millions of women out there have yet to discover the joy of these relationship savers.~Things have changed dramatically as far as my sex life is concerned, I enjoy multiple orgasms and I know that there are a great many women who could also use this help.~Enjoying multiple orgasms is within the grasp of every woman, and I know because this is how I am now. Compared to not ever enjoying an orgasm previously, this has made a big difference to my life and sense of fulfilment.}

{The reason why sex toy protagonists regard these gimmicky toys so highly in terms of relationship matters, is because it is highly frustrating to live a un-orgasmic life. You have a partner bouncing away on top of you who may or may not be aware that the sex is not fulfilling and if you don't tell him, it will be your fault if you feel dissatisfied or resentful.~While a rabbit vibe may seem like a frivolous toy, there is a lot to these gadgets that perhaps doesn't meet the eye. It is frustrating to participate in sexual activity when at the end you are left feeling as though the earth didn't move for you, and this make many women feel dissatisfied, no matter how many partners they try.~Looking at a rabbit vibe may mat the uninitiated think that this is something silly or even frivolous, but there is a lot more to this and other sex toys which don't meet the eye immediately. It can be very frustrating to be in a sexually unfulfilled relationship.}

{Gone are the days when women keep their mouths shut and take it like a man, and men want to know what is happening with their partners sexually. Intimacy is vitally important for a strong and healthy relationship.~This dissatisfaction may lead to resent, but the days when women were expected to suppress their sexuality are long gone. Men have also wised up and they are aware that they need be intimate and talk about these matters for a healthy relationship.~Sexual frustration may lead to resentment issues as well as dissatisfaction and yet, it is not yours or your partners fault, decide to change them. Intimacy and sexual release is important for both partners in a relationship for true intimacy to be achieved.}

{Marriages have been saved by something as small as a tube of lube purchased at a sex toy party. Highly regarded organisations such as Voices for Planned Parenthood and other societies which are against sexual suppression, are all for the use of sex toys in a relationship - every relationship.~It is amazing what a small bottle of stimulating lube and a vibrating bullet can do for marriages and other relationships, and sex toy parties are one of the fun ways of learning about these goodies. Serious organisations against sexual oppression and suppression have a lot to say for the humble sex toy.~A tube of lube and a diving dolphin can save a marriage, and it seems such a small thing to be able to make such a big change. Adult toys have become a way to do away with sexual suppression and are endorsed by leading organisations - these goodies may be purchased by party plan or sex toy parties and what a fun way this is to learn about them.}

{If you have never been exposed to sex toys before, you have to know that just walking into a sex shop in a sleazy part of town is not an easy thing to do, especially for shy or nervous people.~Walking into a darkened sex shop in the worst part of town is not the way to start your relationship with sex toys. Unless the thought of this turns you on - then you are thinking right.~Sex shops have a reputation for being dingy, sleazy and embarrassing to enter. But this does not have to be your introduction to sex toys. They may be purchased online or through party plan today.}

{Buying sex toys does not have to be like this today, there are thousands of online stores and even better, many women are making good money with adult party plan. These parties is they are a lot like Tupperware parties, only much more fun.~Shy or inhibited people will not find this an easy task, so the new innovation of online shopping or attending adult party plan events is a much better option. Adult party plan is a bit like a Tupperware party, its just the merchandise which is different, and it’s a lot of fun.~Adult party plan is so much fun and is a great way to introduce sex toys into your life, they are sold much like Tupperware, and just like Tupperware the new user will see that everyone else uses sex toys too.}

{Women get together, and even more relaxed couples host these functions. But the hostess is well trained regarding her products and able to demonstrate items, so they are not only seen inside the box, on the shelf of a dingy shop.~Women get together to attend these parties and even some open minded couples host them. The sales lady is trained regarding the products and what they do, and it is actually possible to demonstrate items - which means you get to take them out of the box and have a feel, this is not a Roman orgy.~These events are hosted by groups of girls and even couples, but the sexual threat is taken completely out of the equation because they are so much fun. You get to examine the toys - not sexually, but by holding them and looking at them, and are also introduce to accoutrements such as lingerie, lotions, potions, and even novelties.}

Why Relationship Experts Recommend Spicing It Up with Sex Toys

{Despite the best efforts of most people, their relationships begin to flounder. This usually happens when people begin to feel that they are neatly ensconced into their relationships and nothing can happen anymore. But that’s when the drudgery begins to set in. People start looking for some spice and that’s when the boat begins to rock.~There are several people who feel that they are doing the utmost they can, but even then their relationships aren’t going great guns. Even when people have had long-term happy relationships, things can happen that put a dent on them. This can happen when the monotony of the relationships sets in. This is when a little bit of variety can help.~Many people feel that they are giving their best shot in their relationships, but things aren’t still happening the way they want to. This is also true with people who are into single relationships since a long time—there are things that crop up one fine day that makes them unhappy. In most cases, this is about the dullness that begins to set into long-term relationship. But when that happens, spicing things up a little could certainly help.}

{Is this happening with you as well? Probably you aren’t able to steady your boat too. Now, if that’s your problem, maybe you would want to consider something special to set your relationship in the right direction. How about a good sex toy, for instance?~Are you a victim of relationship boredom as well? Maybe your affair is rocking because you aren’t able to bring those little all-important changes. If that’s the case, you really need to do something fast… and maybe adventurous. Probably a great sex toy could solve many things.~Do you feel you are in this zone with your relationship currently? Probably you are also trying to think how you can bring some different into your relationship so that it becomes stronger once again. If you are thinking that way, maybe the answer lies in a great sex toy.}

{Sex toys have been denounced, and they have also been loved. People have said how these are useless tools of amusing oneself, but on the other hand there are also people who have said that these are the things that have made their relationships more meaningful.~There has been unabashed criticism for sex toys but then there also has been a lot of praise. Some feel that sex toys are used only for selfish self-loving reasons but then there are also those who feel that sex toys can be used in relationships to add more value to them.~You will find that there has been a lot of bad talk about sex toys but at the same time there are people who speak about them in hallowed terms as well. While the critics tell about how sex toys are meaningless instruments of self-loving, there are several other people who say how sex toys can bring new things into relationships.}

{The Dual Purpose of Sex Toys~Two Main Uses of Sex Toys~Double Utility of Sex Toys}

{The fact is, according to most studies, that you can use sex toys for both reasons—to give yourself or your partner an amazing new level of sexual satisfaction and also to strengthen the relationship you have with your loved one. The great range of sex toys that are available on the Internet are designed for use on oneself as well as on a partner.~A lot of research that’s been put into sex toys has come up with the conclusion that these toys can be used on oneself as well as on a partner. When used on the partner, it brings the couple to a whole new dimension of sexual pleasure and actually helps to reinforce the relationship. Today, several sex toys are available on the Internet; they are designed for partner loving and not solo use.~The fact is that sex toys can be used on oneself as well as on a partner. There is a lot of flexibility there, and when a sex toy is used on someone else, it can bring such a high level of excitement into the relationship that e verything else becomes secondary. In fact, this is what most of the manufacturers of sex toys that are selling their wares on the Internet are looking at—the heightened couple pleasure factor.}

{Use Them Correctly~The Right Use~Work Them the Proper Way}

{If you want to derive the right benefits of sex toys, you have to make sure you use them correctly. What’s the best way to use them on a partner? Don’t fish out your sex toy right at the start—that might intimidate them. The best way is to first indulge in foreplay and set the mood by talking dirty. Then, when they are properly aroused, bring out the sex toy.~Like with anything else, you need to learn how to use these sex toys in the right way. If you are using them on a loved one, what’s the right way to use them? One tip is to not scare your partner with them. Bring them out slowly into your sexual episode. It’s a highly recommended idea to arouse the partner with some great foreplay first and maybe even say sexually explicit things till they are ready for the bigger show. It is only when they are fully excited must you bring out your sex toy.~In order to unleash the full potential of the sex toy, it is imperative that you learn how to use them in the correct manner. This is more important when you are bringing it on when you are having sex with someone. The tip is to not scare them with it by bringing it out suddenly, but to slowly work it into the sexual encounter. First make your partner hot by giving them some really interesting foreplay and maybe talk sexually with them as well. When they are so highly aroused, they aren’t likely to hold anything back.}

{They might be apprehensive at first, but there will be curiousness as well. Since you have set the mood, they aren’t going to refuse to try out what you give them. Then start using the thing, gently at first, and then build up the momentum.~There will be questions; there will be concern but then there will also be the excitement. Play on this emotion—your partner is highly excited, now dish out the fare. Begin gradually and then slowly work on increasing the tempo.~They may still be worried about it all, but more than anything else, they will be excited. Go ahead; with this level of excitement, there’s only one way you can go. Start slowly and lovingly, and then work your way onward with a faster momentum.}

{There’s no way your partner isn’t going to enjoy that.~Definitely, your loved one is going to go crazy when you use your sex toy this way.~Very few people can resist when you do things that way to them.}

{It Works Both Ways~The Feeling Is Mutual~It Is a Two-Sided Coin}

{Allow your partner to use the sex toy on you as well. Submit to your partner if needed; don’t hold back. When they see you enjoying them using the sex toy on you, things are going to take a more intimate turn.~If your partner so wishes, or if you are intrigued yourself, let your partner use the sex toy on you as well. It doesn’t hurt to be submissive. When your loved one plays with you with the sex toy, things are going to get really nasty and both of you are going to enjoy the whole show quite immensely.~It is quite all right if you allow your partner to use the sex toy on you as well. It is no shame to submit to your partner in this way; in fact, you will find it highly arousing. Things might get very hot and you are going to sit back and relax and enjoy the show enormously.}

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he Day I Got a G Spot Vibe

{The G spot is considered to be the most elusive regions of the entire human anatomy. I had read so much about it that I was really intrigued. I wanted to give some of my women their ultimate G spot pleasure—well, that actually became a passion with me~They say the G spot is the most difficult to find location in the female body. This little area has always fascinated me. I am a man, and probably that’s why I am more interested . Till yesterday, I just had one aspiration in life—to be able to give one of my women a G spot vibe.~I have become almost sick of reading that the G spot is the most complex of regions within the female body. I have always been intrigued by this and have always dreamt of giving my women their G spot vibe. And that was what I was living for}

{And just yesterday, I think I hit jackpot I was with this woman and I know I gave her a G spot vibe. I am pretty darned sure. She was all so messed up when she came and she was so much in ecstasy that it was sure nothing else~And that aspiration died yesterday. The reason—I actually gave someone a G spot vibe That woman was left wanting for more One look at her and I could say I had hit the right spot with her. Her earth-shattering orgasm left nothing to the imagination.~Until yesterday Yesterday, for the first time, I was able to give a woman her G spot vibe. It was the most amazing feeling for me. This woman wanted so much more, I could tell. She was a complete goner by the time I was done with her.}

{Well, I did do some homework on how to go about it. It isn’t all that simple, you know. I started with giving her a great amount of foreplay, which I know always works, I made her really hot and sweaty.~Now don’t you go about thinking it is all that easy. There are things to be done. Even I did a lot of research and found out how to go about it. I took things patiently and started with a slowly mounting tension of foreplay, and she was hooked right then and there.~But you don’t need to think that it is very simple. Actually, you have to do a lot of preparation. I read some about it before I proceeded. I went about it slowly. I actually spent time with a lot of foreplay. I started slow and then picked up the momentum.}

{Just when she became unstoppable with all the fingering and the licking, I stopped. She almost died But then I removed one of the hugest sex toys she must have seen. Her eyes as round as saucers, I told her I was going to use it on her. Her eyes looked alarmed, but I knew there was a vast reservoir of excitement hidden in there.~Then I turned on the heat. I fingered her and I licked her and made her all hot and horny. And just when she wanted me in, I fished out one of the biggest sex toys she must have seen in her darned life She was just so surprised and I don’t know what she felt when I said I was going to put that inside her. I knew she was horny as hell~Slowly, things began to happen. I put my fingers in her and then I started putting my tongue in. She was raging hot by now and she begged me to go right in. But, I didn’t. Instead, I took out what I had brought—a giant sex toy She was almost flabbergasted at the size of it and then I told her I was going to stick it right into her. Even with all the apprehension, I could tell, she was stupendously excited.}

{Ever so slowly, I made her part her legs. She was wet down there and I knew she was totally ready for anything. I was so horny at that time, I could have fucked her and come right then and there, but I was looking for something better. I was looking at having my first G spot vibe from my woman. I knew it would happen tonight.~Then I gently separated her legs. She was very moist there and I liked it. I knew she was wanting more. That moist pussy made me so hard myself that I wanted to leave everything else and penetrate her right then and there but I stopped myself. Experiencing my first G spot vibe from a woman was more important to me.~I slowly got those lovely legs to part and reveal her succulent pussy. That did it for me. The cunt was as moist as ever can be and I was a raging bull already I wanted to forget everything and go right in at that moment, but I checked myself. Right now, experiencing my first G spot vibe orgasm with a woman was crucial to me.}

{The dildo went in easily. First I teased her clit with the sex toy and I slowly began penetrating her, millimeter by millimeter. She was enjoying the tease no end; I could see that. And then when the sex toy was inside her to a substantial degree, I put on the knob on it that started the vibrator.~I got in the dildo quite easily. I did some teasing and then gradually got the tool inside her. It was going in slowly and she was enjoying it infinitely. Her moans and sighs increased and when I knew she was very so hot she couldn’t handle it, I turned the vibrator on the sex toy on.~Then, very gradually, I began to slide the dildo into her. I first allowed its tip to tease her clit and then slowly began jamming it inside her. I could tell she hadn’t experienced such a thing ever before. She was almost audible now, and that was when I turned on the vibrator on the sex toy.}

{The scream of excitement she let out at that moment filled the entire night She clutched at the sheets and moved her legs up and down. I knew I had hit the G spot. It was that reaction all right.~This really exploded her She positively shrieked in the excitement and her whole body began to tremble. Her fingernails began to tear at the sheets in all the frenzy. I knew my sex toy had found her G spot for me. This was the reaction I had read about.~She almost yelled in all the excitement. Her whole body arched and began to quiver in a most amazing manner. She was unstoppable. Her fingernails went into the sheets and she tore them into shreds. I understood what was going on—I had hit her G spot}

{Then, suddenly I removed the sex toy and put my cock inside her. I was harder than I ever was and her wet quivering pussy made all the difference. I came inside her at the very moment that she scratched my back with her fingernails.~Then, when I knew she was just near her breaking point, I removed the sex toy and rammed my penis inside her. I was so hard that I never think I was that much before. It was her warm cunt that made all the difference right now. I exploded inside her, and at that very moment, she rammed her fingernails into the flesh of my back.~I knew she would just come now at any moment. I quickly removed the sex toy from inside her and then stuffed my cock into that pussy. I had never gotten harder than that and her warm dripping cunt was making things all the more adventurous for me. I couldn’t stop myself—I came like a horse. She came too, and it was a total explosion}

{So, that was my most explosive sex ever. I am a proud guy now, a guy who has given her woman a G spot vibe experience~I have never had sex like that ever I am really happy with myself; I have been able to give my woman a G spot vibe and a great orgasm to follow.~That was it—my best sex ever. Giving a woman her first G spot vibe is something I can boastfully tell about to my friends now.}

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Imagine My Surprise When I Received A Vibrator In A Secret Santa?

{I love surprises and I love receiving secret Santa's, but can you imagine my surprise when I received a vibrator in a Secret Santa?~Secret Santa's are one of the ways our office has fun at Christmas time, but imagine the surprise I got when my Secret Santa turned out to be a vibrator?~Christmas and Secret Santa's go hand in hand, and this is one of the ways out office celebrates the festive season. But just imagine the surprise I got when my treat was a vibrator?}

{If you aren't sure what a Secret Santa is, it is when you all have a gift cap of say $20 and you each draw the name of someone you have to purchase a gift for. We do it in the office every Christmas season, and who the hell drew my name and bought me a vibrator??~A Secret Santa is the way our office gets together to buy each other gifts, with out knowing who it came from. We set a cap on the cost of between $20 and $30 or thereabouts and everyone chooses a name out of the hat. The rules are that we are not allowed to divulge who we picked, but who in hell got me a vibrator and why?~Buying Secret Santa's is a super way to make sure everyone gets a gift, no-one spends over a certain amount of money, and no-one knows where the gift comes from. We always set a cap on cost, and everyone chooses a secret name out of the cap. The rules are that no-one can tell who they are buying a gift - someone got me a vibrator!}

{Sex toys are great fun, and more and more people are indulging themselves with these goodies.~Millions of people all over the world are buying sex toys the trend is growing by the day and why not - our sexuality is part of who we intrinsically are.~Sex toys are the thing of the times, women are enjoying their sexuality, and although you can’t get a warm hug from vibrator, you can certainly get a hot flush!}

{Even though sex toys are great fun and I love my collection, I was much more intrigued by who might have thought I needed one. Or worse yet, who knew I collected them. My sexual proclivities are not something I share with colleagues, not even the girls in the office.~I love my sex toys, and have amassed quite a collection, but I never for a moment though anyone knew I collected these. I keep my business life apart from my personal life and haven't even chatted to the girls at work about them.~I am particularly fond of my sex toys, I collect them, but this is a secret collection - no-one knows about them. Not my friends or my colleagues at work, or even any of the men I have dated.}

{The worst bit was that when we got our gifts at the Christmas do, everyone encourages you to open yours and when I did, I was the only one to receive a vibrator. Some people got CD's, books, vouchers and the receptionist even got a teddy bear, but no other sex toys, pills, potions, or novelties were evident.~The Secret Santa gifts are given out at the Christmas party and as we are teased into opening them, you can only imagine my surprise. No-one else got anything like it and not even a sexy novelty, a potion or lotion was present in any of the other folks presents, I was dead embarrassed about this sex toy.~When our Secret Santa gifts are handed out at the Christmas Party, we are all encouraged to open them, so unawares I opened mine too. The second I saw it I tried to stuff it back into the wrapping, but too late, my colleagues had seen it and they all wanted to look too.}

{You should have seen the look on my bosses face! Obviously I couldn't see the look on my own face, but it must have made quite a picture. I am a natural red-head and have the tendency to blush!!~The look on my bosses face was classic, the look on mine must have been better. I am a real blusher, being a natural red-head, and to be honest this was one time I wished I could have done the ostrich burying its head in the sand trick.~I was so embarrassed, and didn't I have to be standing next to my boss when I unwrapped this gift. The look he gave me made me feel as though I hade bought this for myself and wrapped it up. I am a red-head and I was blushing from the top of my head to the soles of my feet - I wanted to crawl up into a ball and die.}

{Not wanting to make too big a scene of thing, and despite everyone's protests of "let me see, let me see", I quickly shoved the offending item back as best I could into its torn wrapping paper, and then into my handbag. By them I had become the centre of attraction.~Of course everyone wanted to get a closer look, but I didn't want too much of a scene, although this was actually too late. So I just bundled the vibrator back into the torn gift wrap and popped it into my handbag, however the damage was done.~I tried to avoid a scene, because everyone was going "lets see", "let's have a look", so I just laughed and made a joke about Santa having a sense of humor. Laughing I bundled it back into its paper and put it in my bag, thinking - out of sight, out of mind.}

{Not only did they want to see it, but they were all murmuring amongst themselves trying to figure out who bought it. Asking, "did you buy it" answering "not me, was it you?" All of them in absolute denial and amazement! To try and make light of it I interceded and said "oh you guys, it must have been Santa". To which everyone laughed and moved on to the bar.~Now it wasn't only about the gift, but everyone was thinking, who could have given the offending item to me. No matter who they all asked, everyone denied responsibility and I just wanted them to forget all about it. Eventually I just laughed it off and said that Santa obviously had a sense of humor, so they all went and got a drink and left me alone.~But the speculation had started and everyone was giggling and whispering, trying to figure out who could have bought this. Trying to diffuse the situation only seemed to make them worse, and they were asking everyone if they had bought it for me, even the peopl! e who hadn't seen it, so by now everyone knew.}

{Thank heavens they were leaving it alone, I had a reputation as the "quiet one", so I was hoping they believed someone had just pulled a prank. This is what I wanted to believe also, but how did someone know this was the next vibe I had set my sights on to add to my collection?~I was the one with reputation for being quiet and even a bit antisocial, and this was why the tongues were wagging so much. But strangely enough this was the next vibrator I had planned to purchase.~My reputation was as a quiet, friendly intelligent and hard-working girl with a tendency to be anti-social. Now they all just though I was a dark horse, and I was a bit of a dark horse, as this was the exact model of vibrator I wanted to add to my collection next.}

{To this day, it remains a mystery, and next year at the Christmas Party, my co-workers clamored round me to see what I had got again. Obviously I didn't want to open it, but they all egged me on.~It is still a mystery who bought me the sex toy of my dreams as a Secret Santa, but the following year, I had a huge audience when it came to opening gifts time at the Christmas event.~To this day we don't know who bought it for me, but it was always being brought up and at Christmas this year, I had a whole crowd around me as I opened my Secret Santa. I didn't want to open it, but it looked innocuous, like a DVD so I did, hoping it wasn't porn.}

{It looked like a DVD and I hoped it wasn't porn, so I took a deep breath and opened it. This time it was a copy of Constantine, a movie I had always wanted - who knew?? But by now I wasn't feeling as though I had received a secret Santa, I felt like I was being secretly stalked!~I didn't want to open it just in case, but it looked safe enough, so they egged me on and I opened it, hoping like hell it wasn't porn. Fortunately it wasn't, but the gift I got gave me the creeps even more. It was a DVD I had wanted for a long time and had not got around to buying. By now I was beginning to believe I had a secret stalker, not a Secret Santa!!~I opened it and everyone could see it was a copy of the movie "Constantine" and immediately lost interest. But my heart was pounding, this was another item I was planning to add to my movie collection next, how did this person know? Quite honestly I was beginning to feel secretly stalked, instead of Secret Santa'd!!}

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How To Make Your Sex Life Pump

{As I write this today I think back to before I discovered the secret to spicing up your love life which happened the first time I walked into an Adult Store. In the past these store were always a bit seedy and the truth is the one I walked into was not much better.~Writing this article I think back to the old days, the time before I walked into my first Adult Store the day my eyes spread wide open. In the past we all know what the old Adult Shops Looked like dim and dusty, well this one wasn’t much better.~Addressing this question makes me think back to the old days the day before the internet, yes there was life before the net. This was the time I walked into a dumpy old sex shop you know how they were before they become more mainstream and become more popular.}

{This store vsist was when adults shops were seedy places designed for men, now you have the internet to save you the same embarrassment that I experience. The reason for going to that shop was to find the secret that little something that will change your love making for the better.~This was years ago now they have changed and you also have online options to get your bedroom tool kit operating. But I digress before I visited the store my love life was a little HO HUM and I was always thinking if there was more.~My visit to the Adult Store was years ago before things changed for the better, they are cleaner and online, yay for the net. The reason I went into the shop was to add something extra to my loving, to add a spark.}

{Well after visiting that Shop years ago I discovered sex toys, but initially the old pearl vibe which was top of the range then had a lot to be left for the desires although it did the job. Basically supplied vibrations that have never been experience before.~When I visited this shop I discovered the Vibe an amazing little thing that has not left my hands since. The first one that I tried was the Pear Vibe an original Japanese invention that quiet frankly blew my mind. It had vibration that had never been experienced before it was the latest design available for sex toys back then.~This shop had a small range of sex toys that compared to what is about now was in hindsight disappointing but at the time was like setting a diabetic loose in a lolly shop. The vibrator I got that day was the pearl vibe the latest and greatest, something that all my friends talking about.}

{Are Vibrators The Answer~Vibrators Are They Really The Answer~Can Vibrators Be The Answer}

{This question is now completely defunct after my years of experience with vibrators, it can only be answered with a massive YES. Once you have grabbed the latest toy and got used to using it when the batteries run out, there is no answer but to go to the servo and grab some more, otherwise your just wasting your time (well not enjoying it as much).~There is only one answer to this question and that is a resounding Yes, they may be optional to the deed but by god once you’ve tried one there is no going back. Not only do they enhance but the also increase the pleasure associated with love making.~Well the answer to this question is a definite Yes, they may be optional but by god they help they add an extra dimension to love making that can only be experienced by grabbing one of the latest release.}

{The old pearl vibe in this article has nothing on some of the monsters that are out now, vibes like the I Vibe with so many different speed and vibrations it is practically impossible to describe it hear other than to say ooooooooooooooooo.~Compared to some of the latest gadgets that Adult shops sell now the pearl vibe really doesn’t rate, for instance the I Vibe is a practical Rolls Royse compared to that vintage of vibe. The I vibe has so many different options that a description with mere words will not do it justice.~Now days the Pearl Vibe has nothing on some of the latest releases many of which are really amazing in their shakes and turns, mind boggling if you will. For instance the I Vibe rabbit is an amazing piece of machinery that without the high tech electronics of the 21st century would not be possible.}

{What Is The Latest And Best~What’s Todays Most Popular~What Are People Buying Now}

{The answer to this is a hard one the selection is just mind boggling but if you look at awards, the I Vibe did well but the We Vibe is without doubt the Adult Toy of 2009-2010 it has the reviews and award to prove its success. Yes there are sex toy awards.~Your Probably thinking good question, how do you know the best, you can buy every one available, which is nowadays an impossible task you need another strategy . The one that we recommend and works for nearly all products is to follow the awards and the We Vibe Triumphs as the vibe of 2009-2010.~I know that you are thinking, so what is the latest and best well this can only be proven by the number of awards received and the I Vibe did well but in reality the We Vibe is without doubt the be toy of 2009-2010.}

{The thing that makes the We Vibe stand out is the way that it stimulates, attacking the clitoris and g-spot at the same time with amazing vigour. The beauty of this product is it perfect for couples and it must be said there is nothing better than trying something new with your lover.~What makes the We Vibe better than its competition is the amazing design that has gone into it, it has been specifically built to stimulate the g-spot and the clitoris at the same time while be used by a couple, I know sounds impossible, but this little beauty does the job.~This Vibe stimulates both the Clitoris and the G-Spot while being so small that you can use it with a partner. And there is nothing better than experimenting with sex toys together.}

{You will find many professionals recommend vibrators and when the we vibe came out were probably blown away by the exciting design. A vibrator is one of the best ways to add excitement to your love life, it certainly beats visiting a public place or does it.~In fact you will find that many psychologist and sexologist recommend them to help liven up the bedroom and bring back excitement in the love making, it beats going to a public place and giving perfect strangers the shock of their life, or is this the next article.~There are articles galore on the internet that recommend vibrators to spice things up but now there’s the we vibe a monster amongst its competition and one of the latest and greatest ways to enjoy your love life more.}

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